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08 October 2006 @ 03:13 pm
what is love?  
I just watched the Densha Otoko special, and it made me think....
☆When will I find such a special love? Such a pure, true, completely romantic type of love. I love this world, I do, but I think that there are things in this life that are unnecessarily harsh. People, too, have become, in so many cases, stronger, OR more co-dependent (and I consider myself one of the 'stronger' ones, because I have hardened a lot in that area). That something such a perfect love exists, I'm sure of, but finding it, and even more elusive-- recognizing it when you've found it, is so difficult.
Loving someone unconditionally.... such a perfect dream... how will we ever know if it comes true?

I suppose I'm just thinking aloud... but I hope that it's  not too far away, the day that I find that perfect, unconditional love, myself. ☆
eighty on October 8th, 2006 08:14 am (UTC)
Plato calls love "just the name we give to the desire for and pursuit of wholeness."

Janelle: MacHall - hugchibi_rei on October 8th, 2006 08:28 am (UTC)
Wow that's quite profound (nothing less from Plato I suppose).
Mon☆Monmony_chan on October 8th, 2006 09:01 am (UTC)
Love is a complicated theme, because there are a lot of kind of Love...
The Fraternal unconditional, Friends, partners and lovers, that's why it is so confusing some times, because we tent to mix them up.
But when the right one arrive you wouldn't need to question it, because you'll simply know.
That's what make love so scary & exciting though... (〃 ̄ω ̄〃ゞ
+babymoss on October 8th, 2006 12:43 pm (UTC)
I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I want to feel this type of deep wonderful love too. Reciprocated, of course. I want someone to laugh with, to cry with, to share everything with. I've never had it before. I never craved it before. But I do now for some reason. You know that part in Bridget Jones' Diary where Mark Darcy says "I like you, just as you are". I want that, just love instead of like.
C L O V E Ridyllica on October 8th, 2006 01:37 pm (UTC)
Be patient for love. ♥ That's all I have to say. But, waiting really sucks though...but, I'm happy being single. I know I will find someone one day....one day...maybe fifty years.
Kathy★キャシーkatokathy on October 9th, 2006 06:18 pm (UTC)
I've been wondering when I'll find love all my life. T.T
-is 16, never dated, never kissed anyone- Sometimes...
its a little embarassing when people know about my non existence love life.
Hi-chan (火ちゃん)hinoai on October 9th, 2006 08:42 pm (UTC)
Oh!! Don't think that you're behind at all!! I think to still be innocent at 16 is a good thing! I didn't date anybody until I was 19 and my first kiss was then too..... so you're not behind at all, and shouldn't be embarrassed about it!
iridieiridie on October 9th, 2006 06:48 pm (UTC)
this is what I thought when I saw Densha Otoko ... but I don't really believe in pure love, sad isnt' t it?
Hi-chan (火ちゃん)hinoai on October 9th, 2006 08:43 pm (UTC)
Why don't you? I think that pure love is a beautiful thing.. ^^ I think that everyone can achieve it as long as they're honest with themselves. ^__^
iridieiridie on October 10th, 2006 05:02 pm (UTC)
until now I haven't found somebody to love like that ^.^" all guys had been nice and so on, but not like Densha for ... O.o I forgot her name. For her it's not important that he's an otaku and a little bit strange, she just loves him like he is. I really hope to change myself in that way too! ^^